It’s Time for Your Midlife Pain to Stop!

This is the Only Midlife Crisis You Get.

Let’s make it count!

Nobody takes you seriously. They say you’re going through a phase, and it will pass. Some even say you’re being childish, selfish.

They say you’re having a midlife crisis, but they say “crisis” with a wink. Nobody considers it a real crisis.

Nobody but you.

You know your pain is real. You know your despair is overwhelming. You’re not some pitiful middle-aged man trying to relive his adolescence. You’re mourning the death of your dreams.

You and I are not going to let those dreams die. We’re going to do something about it.

You’re having a midlife crisis for a reason. It’s not a silly phase to be made fun of; it’s a wakeup call to be listened to.

The people around you won’t listen, so you’ll have to. Listen to yourself. What was it you were going to be? What was it you were going to do? Where is the man you dreamed of becoming?

He’s still in there, screaming to get out, waking you in the middle of the night, tugging at your heart, saying, “Don’t let me die!”

You and I, we’re not going to let him die. We’re going to empower that great man inside you. We’re going to face down the critics and naysayers, the ones who don’t want you to change.

Of course they don’t want you to change. They’re counting on you to stay the same. They make your dependability sound noble. Good ol’ you. They can always count on you to buck up and slog through your misery without complaining. They can depend on you to stick with it no matter how boring and numbing your life is. Good ol’ you. Good ol’ you is dying inside.

I know, you’re this close to telling everyone to go to hell, quitting your job and disappearing to Tahiti with that girl you’ve had your eye on. But let’s face it, at this point in your life you can’t afford to screw up. This is it. You’ve got to make your move and it’s got to work.

So let’s make a plan. Let’s think this thing through and come up with some ideas for getting the life back into your life for the rest of your life.

No, it’s not too late. That voice saying it’s too late doesn’t come from the strong you. That’s the weak little victim who has allowed other people’s demands to drain him. They want the victim in you to believe it’s too late, because they’re not through taking what they want from you.

Sure, you’ve got obligations, and you’re a good man, not the type to just run out on your responsibilities. So quit shirking your responsibility—to yourself!

And you have another responsibility besides to yourself. You owe the world a better you. It’s not just you that you’re cheating. Somebody out there needs the you that you’ve hidden away. Whether it’s love, talent, brains or spirit, believe me, the world needs more of what you’ve got.

In the following pages we’ll think through everything—the exciting stuff, the embarrassing stuff, the scary stuff. All the thoughts and feelings you thought no one else was having. And we’re not just going to indulge your whims; we’ll challenge you to pursue your deepest longings.

What if this was the beginning of the greatest year of your life? What if you had the most success, the best sex, the most optimistic outlook and the greatest plan for your life?

You only get one midlife crisis. Why not have a great midlife crisis?

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